there are rules to dating and specifically when you just meet someone about the amount of contact you can have with a person.

For example if you had a wonderful conversation with a striking guy it’s not acceptable the next day to be so needy for contact that you send messages until he responds.

It is a cardinal rule of dating or meeting someone.

Right now, I want to be the person who talks until you get some sort of answer.  But I know that doing that will only label me something terrible.  So I am resisting calling him or sending a message on AIM.  Not because I don’t want to talk with him but because  I’ve sent one message.  If he wants to talk it’s now in his court.

It’s not a feeling I like but a situation I don’t want to cross.

So here’s to me not going crazy tonight.