Three simple words… At the heart the most sincere expression one person can have towards another. The L word is one to be celebrated and revered. However, what happens to those on the outside of the coupledom and their expression of Love?

It’s easy those on the outside; those friends are quickly forgotten.

At the moment the L word is said the unique bond is formed between the two. It’s at that moment that their separate lives begin to diminish and their lives as one take precedent. Individualism is lost in a willingness not to be alone. Expressions like “we think or we have plans” begins to permeate throughout their lives. (As only to be expected.)

I understand that my view is somewhat selfish and negative. But, as I am facing loosing a great friend due to the L word. I think it is fair to acknowledge a view that is often not expressed. I’m loosing my running buddy and someone I feel close enough to share my feelings. It is not often that I have that kind of friendship and the fact that I am beginning to loose someone I feel close to is upsetting.

I am happy and hope that everything works out for the utmost best for him. He deserves that companionship and relationship in his life.

It is possible that after the initial shock of the L word is uttered and their lives altered that some sort of previous order is restored and friendships grow slowly back.

I’m certainly hoping that’s the case.